How to scan a new place in 10 seconds, read the signs that come before a street attack, hold a boundary from a calm stance, make escape your only goal, and set up a check-in routine so someone would notice if you went quiet.

Get help: If you are in danger now, call your local emergency number (911 in Canada and the US, 999 or 112 in the UK, 000 in Australia, 112 across Europe). After an assault, get medical care quickly even if you don't plan to report it. For support: US, RAINN 1-800-656-4673; UK, Rape Crisis 0808 500 2222 (England and Wales) or Rape Crisis Scotland 08088 01 03 02; Australia, 1800RESPECT 1800 737 732; Canada, your local sexual assault centre. Crisis lines in every country are listed at findahelpline.com.

Step 1: Scan a New Place in 10 Seconds: Exits, People, Light

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SKILL: You can scan a new place in 10 seconds (exits, people, lighting, what feels off), with your phone away and keys out at doors, car parks and lifts.

WHY THIS MATTERS

Your attention is limited. In a field study, people walking while talking on a cell phone walked more slowly, changed direction more often and were less likely to acknowledge other people than people walking alone, in pairs or with music [1]. In a second study on the same route, phone users were less likely to notice a unicycling clown riding past [1]. If a clown on a unicycle is easy to miss, a person slowly closing the gap is easier still.

Action steps
  1. The 10-second scan. Each time you walk into a new place (a car park, a bar, a station, a lift lobby), take 10 seconds for four checks: two ways out, who is here and what they are doing, where the light is and where it isn't, and anything that feels off.
  2. Phone away at transitions. Put the phone in a pocket for the last stretch before a door, a car park, a lift or a stop, and for the first moments after. These are the places where you slow down, look down and fumble for things, which is what the police guide describes [2].
  3. Keys out before the door. Have your keys or card in hand before you reach your door or car, so your eyes stay up and you don't stand still searching your bag [2].

Step 2: Read Pre-attack Signs and Leave on Your Gut

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SKILL: You can read pre-attack signs (closing distance, hidden hands, glancing around, a "got the time?" opener) and leave when your gut warning matches one.

WHY THIS MATTERS

Street attacks rarely come from nowhere. The police guide describes four main methods: confrontations (37% of robberies in one UK study), blitz attacks that start with violence (25%), cons (22%) and snatch-thefts (14%) [2]. In a con, the offender uses a distraction to catch the person off guard, for example asking for the time or directions before attacking, so that they can get close without causing alarm [2]. These methods can change during a robbery [2].

Action steps
  1. Learn the four signs. Someone closing distance or matching your path; hands hidden in pockets or behind the back; glancing around, as if checking who else is watching; and an opener question when you are alone ("Got the time?", "Got a light?", "Which way to the station?"). The opener is the con the police guide describes [2].
  2. Two signs or one gut warning: leave. When two signs line up, or your gut says no, move toward people and light: cross the street, walk into a shop, call someone and talk out loud.
  3. Tell nerves from a warning. Nerves are a general unease about being out late or alone. A warning points at one person or one change: someone who crossed when you crossed, or went quiet when you looked at them. Act on a warning every time, without needing proof.

Step 3: Hold Distance With the Fence and One Boundary Line

SKILL: You can hold distance with the fence: stand at an angle with open hands up, use short calm lines, and repeat one boundary without explaining.

WHY THIS MATTERS

Good self-defence classes teach voice and boundaries alongside physical skills. In a study of a 10-week university self-defence class with a one-year follow-up, women who took the class were less likely to experience sexual assault than similar women who didn't, and felt more confident they could resist [6]. Among 1,623 women who were later attacked, those who had taken self-defence or assertiveness training beforehand were more likely to say their resistance stopped the attacker or made him less aggressive, and they felt angrier and less scared during the attack [7].

Action steps
  1. Two arm-lengths. When a stranger approaches and something feels off, keep at least two arm-lengths between you. Step back or to the side as they step in.
  2. The fence. Raise both hands to chest height, open, palms out, as if saying "easy, slow down". It looks calm and polite, and it puts your hands between you and them without starting a fight.
  3. Write two lines. Pick two short lines and say each out loud five times today. For example: "Stop. Stay back." and "No. I'm not interested." Keep them under five words.
  4. Repeat, don't explain. If they push, say the same line again, a little louder and lower, with no reasons and no apologies. Reasons give them something to argue with.

Step 4: Escape First: A Loud Voice, No Second Location, One Planned First Move

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SKILL: You can escape an attack: a loud "Back off!", never going to a second location, with one first move planned for when you freeze.

WHY THIS MATTERS

The goal is never to win a fight. It is to get away and get help. The evidence on resisting is clearer than many people think. In police reports of 150 sexual assaults in one U.S. city, forceful verbal resistance (yelling), physical resistance and fleeing were all linked to avoiding rape, while pleading and not resisting were linked to rape being completed; women who resisted forcefully were no more likely to be injured [3]. In a large national U.S. crime survey from 1992 to 2002, most self-protective actions, forceful or not, lowered the risk of rape being completed and did not significantly raise the risk of other injury [4]. These are links, not guarantees [3][4].

Freezing is part of the picture. Of 298 women seen at an emergency clinic within a month of a rape, 70% reported significant freezing (tonic immobility) during the assault, and 48% reported extreme freezing [5]. Freezing is an involuntary body response to extreme threat, not a choice [5]. Women with an earlier trauma history were more likely to freeze [5]. That is why the plan is one simple move you decide on now, while you are calm.

Action steps
  1. Practise your voice. Today, say one loud, low "BACK OFF!" from the belly, three times, somewhere private, until it stops feeling strange. Yelling was one of the responses linked to avoiding rape [3].
  2. The no-second-location rule. Decide now: if anyone tries to move you to a car, a room, an alley or anywhere more private, you resist right there, loudly, and run toward people.
  3. Pick one first move. Choose one simple action for the moment you freeze, for example "yell BACK OFF and step back into the fence" or "drop the bag and run toward light". Rehearse it in your head twice a week for a month, picturing a real place you go.

Step 5: Build Your Safety Net: Check-ins, a Code Word and Phone SOS

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SKILL: You can set up a safety net for solo trips and dates: a check-in time and code word with 1-2 people, plus phone SOS and live location on.

WHY THIS MATTERS

Steps 1 to 4 depend on you. This step adds other people, so that if something does go wrong, help starts in minutes, not the next morning.

Action steps
  1. Choose your people. Tonight, pick one or two people and ask them to be your check-in contacts. Tell them what you are asking for.
  2. Send the three facts. Before a solo trip, a late night or a first date, send where you are going, who you are with, and the time you will check in.
  3. Agree the missed-check-in plan. If you miss your time by 15 to 30 minutes, they call; then they call again; then they call the person you are with or emergency services. Write it down together so nobody has to guess.
  4. Two code words. Agree one word that means "call me now with an excuse to leave" and a second that means "come and get me, or call for help". Use words that fit an ordinary text.
  5. Set up phone SOS. In your phone's settings, search "Emergency SOS". Turn it on, add your emergency contacts and a medical ID, and learn the button press without placing a call.

What to Do Next

  • Today: do the 10-second scan at every new door, and say your two lines out loud five times.
  • This week: choose your check-in contacts and code words, and turn on phone SOS.
  • This month: rehearse your first move twice a week.

Go Further

  • Stay Safe on the Street, on Transit, in Rideshares and When Travelling covers routes, night buses, rideshare checks and safety in a new city.
  • Talk Your Way Out: De-escalation, the Fence and Firm Boundaries goes deeper on escalation signs, face-saving exits and scripts.
  • Escape First: The Core Rules of Self-defence covers freeze and breathing, using keys or a bag, and physical moves.
  • Set Up Check-ins, Code Words and Phone SOS has the full set-up and review for every phone.